Thursday, April 23, 2009

Last time when i cried

My last time when I cried was six years ago, in 2002, when my mom past away. This was the last time when I did it. When my mom died she was 65 years old, and she suffered from high blood pressure. After, she had been in the hospital for couple of weeks; she did not get any progress. However, that was my worst day in my life when I received the phone call from my older brother and he had told me the news. I had started to cry so bad because I loved her so much, she raised me. After a long crying day I had stopped because I couldn’t change anything. That was god’s decision and no one can do anything. Crying is not a good feeling, but in some moments makes you feel realized from any pressure. All people loves their parents, but the differences are in relations ship between parents-children. I know that no one in this world can exchange my mom, but the life should be continue and I just remembering her best characteristics of parenting. She was not only my mom , all my friends they liked her because she never gave as hard time for anything. She all the time wants us to be happy. I wish she had been alive and I would have been the happiest person in the world again.

Exept my language,I would like to learn English

Other language that I would like to learn except my native language is English. Since I was young kid I was interesting how to learn speaking English well. I had tried before, but I did not have success learning English. At the end after I have moved to the United States in 2006 I have no choice. Since now I am living here in the U.S. I must need to know speaking and writing in English because other wise I would have difficulties for my life. English is not important just to speak and understand people, but is more than that. If you know to speak English well you will not have any problem finding a job or traveling around the world. English language has become the first spoken language. In nowadays for many position even in different countries they require English language. So for me is necessary learning English because I want to study and become successful in my new life here. So far I am not very well with English, but fortunately by going to school ad speaking to other people I will improve my English skills. If I can keep going to school for next couple of years definitively I would be able to communicate and speak English fluently.

Something that i am proud fo

I am very simple person and friendly. The most thing that make me to be proud of my self is Honesty. I am very honest and I never prefer lying about anything. When somebody asks me for something if I don’t know the correct answer simply I say I don’t know. For me honesty is very important and I don’t like people who trying to lye. If you are not honest others can isolated and let you being alone. Since I was a kid my mother taught and educated me to be a honest person. She had told me that honesty is very important skill for you to become friendly. If you trying to disrespect and lying people, nobody likes you. Respect and honesty are two main key for someone to become a good person. For someone to love you, first you should love that person. Moreover, in my culture honesty is something that if you don’t have it , you can be in trouble. I lived in very small city and everyone had known each other, so if you were good that helped you a lot, but if you were bad person that could your life harder.

Afternon free time

If I am free during the afternoon, I prefer to do some exercises and go out for a dinner. Usually I prefer down town Stamford because I feel comfortable and relax when I am out there. There are so many nice restaurants and clubs. My favorite one is ‘NAPPA” restaurant in Summer Street below the Marriot Hotel. Sometimes when I am free during the afternoon I take my wife for dinner there. They have nice food and do great service for costumers. After, we coming back from dinner, we prefer to walk for a little bit. In the place where I live, in Strawberry hill av., is a nice stadium, where you can walk, play, and stay. When the weather is not so good to be outside, we go for visit my wife’s family in Greenwich, and some other relatives around here in Connecticut. Free time is good and relaxes for me, but unfortunately this is not happen very often. I have to work mostly of the time, and when I have free time I need to do my homework for my school. During the summer time chances to have free time are more possible because the day time is longer and you can do more activities.

My best place that i visited

My best place in the world that I had been visited is London. There are so many things that you can do. First, it is very old city, and still they keep the old culture. I visited London last year for thanks giving. At the beginning, I was skeptic going there because I was not sure if I am going to have good time. Moreover, that was my best decision in my life for visiting London. I had so much fun and I enjoyed. I had been there with my wife and we stayed for 10 days. We made a plan before we went there what to visit and what too do. London has so many different places and museums for visitors. Before I went there I had heard for some of them, but I did not know that London has as many like this. We started our trip by visiting “House of Parliament” in center of London, which is the best house of the parliament in the world. What it makes interesting this house is the fact that everything was built long time ago with high architecture on the wall and the roof.. Next to the house of the parliament is the eye of London, where you have to make early reservation because otherwise you are not able to take a ride. Another great thing is London tower, where it used to live King of England long time ago. They did in this place so many executions to people who did not have the same thoughts. There also are so many museums where you can see different kind of clothes and history about the kingdom family.

The most important charscteristic of a good techer

In my opinion the most characteristic of a good teacher is his knowledge to be easy for other understanding him. We have a lot of cases where people are well educated and well behaved, but they can not be good teachers. This is not because they are not enough prepared to be teachers, but they do not have good method of teaching. For students, usually is very easy to have progress in their studies, if they can have good connection in relation teacher-student. In my experience I had have in the past lot of teachers , who were nice people and high educated , but I did not like their method of teaching , and that’s why I didn’t get much from them. People’s personality and confidence is another good thing to make them be stronger. Teacher’s job is not easy; however, in some cases they face many difficulties and challenges in their profession. They have to deal with different students. In this case there are very good students and very bad. One of their jobs is to make bad students becoming good and successful. Sometimes that is impossible and they are not feeling well, but what they can do. Moreover, when they heard that one of their students achieved something high, they are more than happy.

Monday, April 13, 2009

The Most Significant Invention in the History of the World

In my opinion the most significant invention in the history of the world is Airplane. Since they invented airplane, people’s transportation got more easy and comfortable. This invitation was not just easy for people’s transportation, but it’s connecting the world in many different ways. For example, 100 years ago for people to come from oversees into United States was more challenging and hard. They have to use so much time at list a month to get here, so now by the plane they can get here in 7-8 ours. Another important thing that airplane helps is cargo and shipping. In now days if you have to send something somewhere in the world, you can do that easily and fast. There are so many ways you could do that depending on airplanes help. Moreover, airplanes make easy for rescuing people in any catastrophe such as: tsunami, earthquake, tornado etc. For all these reasons I think that airplanes make people’s life easy for their transportation, sending cargo back and worth etc. In some case airplanes can have a negative impact in people’s life because by any accident something on the air happen chances to survive are less that from any other accident.

My Favorite Color

My favorite color is black. I love this color since I was child. Black color is more common color that people like. I like this color to be in the most my belongings. For example, I like my car in black color, not just is my favorite, but I think every car in black looks much better that in other colors. That’s why when you buy a car if is in black probably you have to pay little bit more, deepens on the factory you purchase. I also prefer to get little dark in my skin color, so during the summer I go to the beech and try to get in dark. There are a lot of things that a like to be in black; for example, some clothes I prefer in black, some furniture in dark color looks great etc. However, I like red color too. Some other things, I like to be on red. For example, during the summer I like red flowers in my garden because they look so beautiful and make me feel relax just by seeing them. Moreover, I prefer the red color in my bad room, and I have it. That’s looks so relaxed and romantic such as I can sleep very easily. I know some people like defferent colors then myne, but this are my two favorite colors, and i prefere them in defferent ocasion.

My best Friend

When I was child my best friend named Bujar Ejupi. We grew up in the same neighborhood and also attended the same school. He was and still is my best friend. We used to ply together and never had have any problem or fight as a child. He now is living in Kosovo, and I keep my contact with him every day by calling and writing emails. He is married and I was there for his wedding. His wife name is Shukran and she is from Kosovo too. They don’t have any children yet , but they planning to have soon. Bujar was not just friend to me, he was more than that. All the time when I had have any problem in the past, he was the main person who I trusted and looking fore help. He never refused to help me no meter what was the case. He came from such a nice family, and just finished his university. His major was business consultant, and now he is started to work for a big company. When I go to visit my country I spend more time with him then with my family. Sometimes his wife gets upset because she has told him why he never takes her with us, when we go out with friends. Not that he does not love her , but he thinks that if she is with us he should care about her and is not going to have time laughing.

What kind of person I would like my son to marry

I don’t have any children yet, but if I have a boy I would like him to marry a intelligent person, honest, good educated, from nice family, and of course good lucking. Those are some major thing that the person should have in his/her life. If people are well educated, honest, and coming from nice family, they must have to be lovely people. I can not say that a person who came from bad family would be bad too, but in mostly of the cases the family background follows people’s life in their future. I wish my son to choice this kind of person to marry for his life because it would be easier their life. I know people who did not choice a right person to marry, and they end it up in divorce, or any other trouble. Moreover choosing the right person to be your husband or wife is very important to have a dissent life. Marriage life is not easy as people think. When you marry someone that person would be your wife, your family, your friend etc. I hope and I want my son to follow my advice when he decide to marry someone, because is not only love that connect two people , there should be more than that.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

The Last House on the Left

The movie “The Last House on the Left”, by director Dennis IIiadis is phenomenal drama. All story in the movie is about if bad people hurt someone you love, how far would you go to hurt them back. A family went for vacation in a place where no other houses were around. Their teenager daughter decided to go in a very nearby small town for couple ours. Unfortunately, she and her best friend were staying in a house of very dangerous people with out knowing . They had been kidnapped and brutally assaulting from , a gang led by a prison escapee , and they end it up in the one of the victims house where were living her parents, her mother and father. After all that two young ladies went through one of them had been killed and another one had been wounded. The gang reached the house of the wounded girl, without knowing she still was alive and that was her house. Her parents helped the group of gangs and at the end they understand that they , tried to killed their daughter. However, their daughter somehow came back in the house and had told her parents that the people who wounded her are in the house. Her father was a doctor and when he understands what they did to his daughter, he decided to revenge. He killed all member of the group, and at the end he tortured the led of the gang and put his head on microwave. In my opinion, this is a very good job of the director and that story can be true. I suggest to the people to go and watch this movie, it is very interesting and by the same time scary movie.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Raining Day

Today has been raining day for all day long. When I wok up in the morning, I checked the weather and it was so raining. I did have to go to work and first I drank my morning coffee and then I prepared for my job. In morning I have to go in the city to take someone there at nearby Wall Street. On my way back the traffic wasn’t bad, so I got back fast. After I came in Stamford I had to do something inside the city where the traffic was moving so slowly because drivers were cautions driving in wet roads. On the middle of the day the rain was stopped for a little bit and then started again. My second job for me today was going in Newark New Jersey to pick up a costumer and bringing back in Milford CT. moreover, since today was raining day a was not so busy , so I got home early. When my wife had madden dinner for us , that was a delicious food . She made for dinner a chicken rise over with vegetables. After we ate dinner we been watching some TV and then we went to sleep.

My Favorite Book

One of our homework for this week was to choice our Favorite book to read, which is due by the end of this semester. We had taken three books, and then we choused one as a favorite book. I got three interesting books, and after I read first 20 pages of each one, I decided to stick with a book named “No place Like Home” by Mary Higgins Clark. After I finished two its chapters, I was impressed how the author writes and explain the story. In first 20 pages, I understand that how a young girl named Lisa, killed her mother accidentally. When she was 10 years old her mother suffered a lot by being physical abused and tortured by Lisa’s step father. However, one day Lisa’s step father was torturing her mother and Lisa decided to go in her mother’s bed room and got a gun. She pointed her gun at her step father, but she was so young and she couldn’t control the situation. By accidentally she killed her mother instead of her step father. Because she was young, they did not put her in jail. They sent her to a rehabilitation center in California, and after little while she got married and have a son. Things didn’t go well in her first marriage, so she got divorced. Lisa remarried with a guy named Alex. This guy was very nice and Lisa was happy with him. This is all about first 20 pages of this book. To be continued.

Sunday Aprill 5

Yesterday was Sunday the last day of the week, and I was happy because the weather had been so nice. During this day in the morning I was staying home doing some of my Scholl staff. After I had breakfast, I received a call from my family back in Kosovo. I was talking with them for more then our. They informed me about everything what is going there, and I was so happy for fact that everyone and everything is good. Moreover, since the weather was perfect I decided to take my wife for lunch at “Capriccio” restaurant in Stamford. I preferred this place because it has a nice terrace to seat outside eat and enjoying the beautiful weather. After we finished lunch, it was my time to go and play soccer. Every Sunday I am playing soccer in Stamford with a lot of Albanian people. We enjoy the game and mostly of the time, we do a lot of Albanian jocks .Anyway yesterday was unforgotten day because of the nice weather and I did so many activities. In the evening, I just stayed home watching TV, and relaxed. However, around 9:00 p.m. one of my best friend called me to go out for a caffe , but i regret that because i was so tired and i did not feel to go out.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

The Spring

I was very happy when the spring came this year.On March 20th was the first day of the spring and i did not feel that was for reall because the weather still has been cool.However, i like the spring season because it is not so hot and it is not so could.Another interesting fact why i love the spring is that in this time everything start to breath and the natyre take the best color. Flowers starting to raise and the grase become in green which meaks everything alive. In the spring you can change the way you wearing. Until this time we have to wear coats and other winter jacket, so by the spring coming we can wear more light close such as T-shirt, shorts, etc. In addition, in the spring time you can enjoy hearing songs of the birds .People starte to work much harder during the spring time and make little bit more money for any of them vacation . When i see the soon on the sky during the spring , i feel that its the time to go and visit my country. That's how i feel during the spring time and i wish that this year i can stay longer in my country.